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Personal matchmaking for singles over 40

The last first date you'll ever need...
Genuine Connections is not a dating app - it’s a personal matchmaking agency for singles over 40 who are serious about finding love. I’m Cath, and I believe real love deserves more than just a swipe.
 
I take the time to get to know you - your values, your lifestyle, and what truly matters in a partner. My 1:1 matchmaking service offers personal introductions and support, with shared values and genuine chemistry at the heart of every match I consider.
 
If you would prefer to join my private database, CoreCircle membership means you will be considered when I’m looking for matches for my 1:1 clients.
Happy Couple on the Beach

Dating again after divorce or bereavement can feel unfamiliar. You might have tried the apps and come away disappointed, or simply want a more personal way to meet someone. I’m here to listen and help you work out the right next step.

Relax, you just met your new dating bestie

How my 1:1 matchmaking works

Hi, I’m Cath - a straight-talking, big-hearted matchmaker who loves nothing more than seeing sparks fly. I offer personal matchmaking for singles over 40. Just like you, I’m a real person, not an algorithm. I take the time to understand who you are, what you value and what kind of love you’re looking for.

WE TALK: We’ll have a warm, in-depth chat so I can learn your story, hopes, and deal-breakers. You’ll also complete a short questionnaire to deepen my understanding of your values and goals.

YOUR PROFILE: I create a bespoke profile that reflects who you are and what you’re seeking. More than a checklist, it’s a true picture of you.

CURATED MATCHES: Using my private network, I hand-pick introductions that align with your values and relationship vision.

YOUR JOURNEY: Meet one person at a time, with my guidance and support to keep dating exciting, not stressful.

HAPPILY EVER AFTER: Whatever you’re looking for – romance, companionship, or a soulmate – I’m here to make the journey as enjoyable as the destination.

No swiping. No guesswork. Just genuine connections, personally chosen for you.

We believe love deserves more than a swipe

Finding Your Forever

My matchmaking services are built on connections that count. I’m all about helping you find love and companionship, and I recognise that what works for one person may be different for you.
That’s why there are two ways to join Genuine Connections: 1:1 matchmaking, with personal introductions and support, or CoreCircle membership, where you join my private database and will be considered when I’m looking for matches for my 1:1 clients.

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Ditch the apps for good

This is not a dating app. I believe real love deserves more than a swipe. With my 1:1 matchmaking service, I get to know you as a person, understand what matters to you and carefully select introductions with shared values and genuine chemistry in mind. You’ll have personal support from me throughout your membership.

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Your First Step Towards Genuine Connection
I know that starting a full matchmaking membership can feel like a big step. That’s why I created the CoreCircle - a softer first step. I’ll get to know you, write your profile and include you on my private database. You will be considered when I’m looking for matches for my 1:1 clients. There is no active search on your behalf and introductions aren’t guaranteed.

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A fresh way to find love

Looking for a more affordable way to benefit from personal matchmaking? With The Discovery, I'll actively search for potential partners for you each month, drawing on my experience, network and matchmaker's instinct. When I find someone I genuinely believe could be a great match, I'll arrange an introduction and see where that spark might lead.

The SocialCircle

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Discovery

You’ve built a life you love. Let me help you find the person you’d love to share it with. The Discovery is for you if you’re genuinely ready for a relationship and want to make finding the right person a priority.

You’re investing in working with me 1:1, and in the time, care and personal judgement I put into searching for someone I believe could genuinely be right for you.

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REAL STORIES, REAL MATCHES, REAL MAGIC

Love Stories

After years of struggling to find the right person through dating apps, I had almost given up hope.  The endless swiping and mismatched dates let me feeling discouraged as it seemed like no one was a truly good fit.  Then I discovered Cath’s matchmaking service and everything changed.  Within just a few weeks of signing up Cath introduced me to someone who truly clicked with me and I can’t believe how well matched we are.  We share so much in common – our values, our shy nature and even our sense of humour.  It’s incredible how perfectly Cath paired us and I couldn’t be happier.  Today I’m seriously considering applying to have Cath’s name changed by deed poll to Cupid!

Nathan,
Sussex

I’ve always been nervous about dating and especially dating apps because they require you to be very forward and forthright and that’s not really my nature.  I’m quite shy about meeting women and not very confident.  So I’ve always found it difficult to arrange dates as I’m not very good at making the first move and never quite sure what to do or say.

So to have someone take all that stress and pressure away from me and just match me up with someone based on information about us and our personality profiles was such a huge help and a big relief.

I was nervous before meeting my date but all of that passed quickly because we got on so well and were so well suited.  The conversation flowed easily and we found we had lots in common and a similar sense of humour.

I’m very grateful that Cath brought us together and thank you again for making the process so easy.  I would definitely recommend Genuine Connections over other dating services and especially dating apps because Cath actually matches you with you’re suited with, rather than just computer algorithms.

Ian,
Surrey

Cath’s matchmaking puts the fun and excitement back into dating. It makes it pleasurable again.

Naomi,
Yorkshire
REAL STORIES, REAL MATCHES, REAL MAGIC

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